A follow-up to my last post. I found this article to be perfect in describing the intricacies of dealing with haters. Anyone who has been brave enough to put their heart and soul out there through their writing will appreciate the contents of the link below.
http://mashable.com/2010/04/29/deal-with-haters-tim-ferriss/
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Getting back to the nitty gritty, I guess ignoring is still the most graceful way of dealing with it. One can try to motivate or persuade that we each have a right of our own thinking and doing, but in the end, that is it. We have a right to think and do (withing the law
). And so have everyone else. We will all grow up eventually and do the right thing! In the meantime, this is a playground 
While ignoring hate writers on your blog is the right thing to do; It is much harder to avoid living and working with high-conflict individuals. I recently completed a day long seminar entitled, “Noxious People: Living and Working With High-Conflict Individuals”. It was sponsored by the Institute for Brain Potential. I found the seminar very informative and it provided practical strategies when dealing with the noxious personality, especially if you a health care professional.
I hadn’t ever thought about what workers in the health field must deal with. Eye-opening comment. Thanks so much.
I have learned to treat haters, by remaining silent with respect to their negative attacks. I don’t respond to their critisisms, nor do I lower myself to their mental lvel. I’m way above that childish behavior. Let them rant, they only hurt themselves. Their words just bounce off.
I think that is the best way to handle it.
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Great link to the post. It is very sad that we have to waste our positive energy on dealing with people who offer nothing to us. I have found myself in that situation many times in my life.
When people hate they waste so many precious moments in their own lives. If they spent that time working their own crap out they might be happier.
Cheers
Laurie
I agree.
Thank you for sharing the link……………..
Good link to post… It’s just statistically impossible to please everyone, so why bother trying? Right???? LOL
Sadly, yes.
Rightly said Keli its really not possible to please everyone. Not always every one is in same frame of mind .
I have made a small attempt to write an article about finding happiness in materialistic world. please do read and let me know your views.
http://shwetalfoundhappiness.wordpress.com/2012/11/20/finding-happiness-in-this-materialistic-world/